Here’s a situation….

that I am having with one of my friends. Nancy has been in this long time relationship with John and for sometime now she has been having a friend on the side. At first Larry was exactly that, just a friend. He knew about John and was okay with the situation but all of a sudden Larry developed feelings for Nancy. When Nancy told Freda about it, Freda was not being the best of friends that she could have been because she could have directed her in a different direction but all Freda told Nancy was to do her and make sure that she was happy. So Nancy went along with Larry and a little relationship was developed. Larry was doing all the right things and you know how someone can just make you feel good just by being around you, well thats kind of the problem that Nancy is having. She wants to stop seeing Larry cause she knows its the best thing to do but she dont want to hurt his feelings which Freda has told her a long time ago that someone, rather it was John or Larry, was going to have their feelings hurt because she could not keep living a separate life. Well it has been going on for so long now Freda believes its not their feelings that she is looking out for, Freda is starting to think that Nancy is scared of her own feelings being hurt. Nancy is actually starting to drive herself insane on how she can call it off with Larry and Freda has ran out of things to tell her. Nancy knew that she would never leave John but the little relationship that she was having got deeper than she expected. Dont get me wrong, John had his flaws to where Nancy  would want to go out here and do something so stupid to fall in love sort of speak with someone else. I know, I know, you think its impossible to love two people. Well there are several definations of the word love but the two I am talking about is being in love and just loving someone. Freda dont think that Nancy knows which one she is when it comes to John, all Nancy knows is that she dont want to leave John because he is her everything but Larry makes her feel the way that she wants to feel. So Nancy has put herself between a rock and a hard spot but is wanting out and Freda has no ideas left to help Nancy get out of it so they have turned to the net to see if someone else out there has been thru this and if so what did they do.